It is widely accepted by everyone that boys and girls are different.Nowadays, many mothers worried about their son playing dolls instead of playing trucks, and their mother want to seek the psychologists for help. In my experiences, I have heard about lot of examples like Bradley; as we can see, there is an increasing number of children are faced with this problems that they cannot have a correct gender difference definition. Sometimes children may develop in an opposite gender. Boys like girls’ shirts, and girls look like a boy. This phenomenon has now become a social problem; many professional people from many areas now try to find the solution.

Firstly, from my experience, I think that parents should take the major responsibility for their children’s non-tradition behavior. Because many of my male friends told me that when they were little boys, their mother let them wear girl’s dresses, and took a photo. The psychologist can give the children a treatment, they will use some advanced psychological method to treat the children, but the children have spent a lot of time with their parents. If their parents still use their wrong senses to teach their children, when they grow up, their gender behavior will not accepted by society.

many children do not know that their definition about the gender is wrong until they have a test. Therefore, parents should give their children a correct gender behavior, such as give the boy trucks, transformer,  let them wear the T-shirt, jeans, paint their room into blue, and give them a bicycle or skateboard as a present. When the girls run into this problem, let the girl wear pretty and cute dress, give them a doll and a teddy bear. It will help the children to have the correct behavior. Therefore, parents are the key to the treatment of the abnormal behavior.

Secondly, society should take a part of the responsibility.We can find that many TV shows nowadays give children a wrong definition of the gender difference that is if a man looks like a woman, or a woman looks like a man, it’s a cool thing. This ridiculous phenomenon directly contributed to the young children feel confused about what’s the normal gender behavior they should have. Young children like fashion stuffs, they like to learn from their idols’ style of clothing, and their cool posture. Since the young children didn’t have the normal gender behavior. Therefore, our mass Medias have duty to should give the young children a correct gender behavior. Children and adolescents are influenced by role models in society. This part of treatment is what the physiologists cannot fix.

Last but not least, I think the school should help the psychologists treat the children, who have abnormal gender behavior.

As we all know, the most academic education we learned are from school, therefore, schools should pay more attention to guide the children what the normal gender behaviors they should have. I suggest school give the boys more sports classes, give the girls more dancing classes, especially for the children who has the same problem as Bradley, let this part of children to play with the same sex children, to help them recognize the normal behavior by themselves.

       To sum up, we cannot only rely on the psychologist to fix the abnormal gender differences, parents, society and school should together influence this king of children to find what their normal gender behavior is.